This is a sequel to yesterdays
post and today, I’m sharing the remaining 5 stupid things you shouldn’t do when
you’re wrong. Read the previous 5 things
here.
#6 – Enter into a Blood Covenant
No matter how in love you
are right now, NEVER enter into a blood covenant or any kind of covenant for
that matter. If love is not enough to keep you both, a covenant is not enough
either. Moreover, making such a covenant just gives the devil a platform to
manipulate circumstances to ensure you both break the covenant and suffer the
consequences. The only covenant you should enter into for love should be a
marriage.
#7 – Enter into a Shrine for any Reason
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Oya, hold your ears:
NEVER ENTER A JUJU SHRINE FOR ANY REASON. Period!!! Whether you’re just
accompanying a friend, someone accused you of something and wants you to swear
an oath there, you want to “inquire” on something or get something to make your
business or relationship work better, NEVER go to a shrine. That singular
action of stepping you into a shrine opens you up to evil spirits and assorted
evil manipulations to start working in your life. If you think I’m wrong, ask
your pastor. You have your whole life ahead of you to jeopardize it this way.
#8 – Hook up with Strangers in Secret Places
Yea, I know you can take
care of yourself, after all you’re no longer a baby. If you have to meet up
with strangers or acquaintances in strange places, make sure to tell at least
one person close to you where you’re going to and who you’re going with, just
in case anything happens. Even if it’s your “boyfriend” or “bossom friend”
you’re going to a strange place with, always make sure at least one person
knows. Friends and boyfriends have led people to their untimely death, you
know. A word is enough for the wise.
#9 – Get Involved with Married Men
Okay, Okay; say whatever
you feel like about dating married men. But the truth is: when you date married
men, it creates an aura around you
that eventually hurts you in future, despite all you think you may gain. That aura becomes like a spiritual perfume or
sign board that attracts only married men looking for a booty call to you and
blinds single guys to you which will leave you in frustration by the time you’re
ready to settle down. To understand this more, read Juanita Bynum’s book No
More Sheets.
#10 – Prove Your Love via Sex
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As long as the earth
remains, this cliché will be used “If you love me, prove your love for me”. And
then all the pressures to prove your love via sex begins. Don’t be deceived;
that has always been a punch line to get ladies to have pre-marital sex. Sex
has never been a proof of love. Despite how much he threatens to leave you or
get it from some other girl, even if you give in have sex with him, he will
still leave you and get another girl when he’s through with you. Wise up; it’s
the testosterone speaking, not love.
Voila!
Those are the stupid things you shouldn’t do when you’re young because like a
boomerang, they will come back to bite you in nasty places in your future. The
choice is now yours to make. If you still choose to be entangled in them, get
ready to stomach the consequences in future. May God give us all the grace to
make the right choices at each point in life. Xoxo. Have a smashing weekend.
Questions?
Suggestions? Private comments? Facing a relationship dilemma and in need of
counsel? I’m just an email away; email me on graceyokoye@yahoo.com
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