BE THE BEST YOU ARE!!!
Written by - Mimi Okwara
Written by - Mimi Okwara
It's a beautiful day, sisters. Happy July. As a continuation from my previous post, NO MORE, I'd like to speak specifically today on who you are, and being exactly that. I
see high and lofty ladies/women daily bask in the aura of false self-gait,
with the deepest fear of insecurity; haunted with memories of childhood
molestations, regrets, mistakes... and so on and it pains me greatly. Consequently, we
hide under the cloak of ACCEPTANCE with you turning into
"everybody's good girl, trying so hard to please your dad, mum, pals, boyfriend, fiance,etc. Dear sister of mine, I understand
that the spark that got you rolling with him was the fact that he
actually started off looking like the one in a thousand ways that presented
articulately the "I care" speech. But that is not enough reason to lose who you are (sweetheart, nicer men are on the
way).
Fulfillment and acceptance aren't found in the air - their residence is within (on the inside of you). You can't be happy with anyone else till you are happy, fulfilled and calmly resolved, all by yourself. For crying out loud,we already have tons of dishevelled mums on the inside springing up on the outside, their stories being told as gossip or headline news daily. Please, don't add to the ever increasing number.
Whatever it is, FIX IT UP, NOW. No one is and will be YOUR BETTER HALF to complement and fill up spaces. Only God can fill the vacuums in your life created by a terrible childhood, bad relationships, past hurts and a desire to be loved. Your present state of a heart in shambles wasn't so ab initio. God made you WHOLESOME, not a burden, so don't plan to burden any one with your problems. Get it right, now!
Yea,I know they hurt you in many places intentionally or unintentionally. But, you're not the only one - so many of us are victims of different kinds of abuse from a very early age. For some, it initiated a RIPPLE EFFECT that left you so open, disgusting, and dirty (says who?). Some others are even scared that everyone else (besides them), are wolves in sheep clothing..., and that no one will accept them for real.
My dear, he will Love, care for, and adore you if he is THE ONE, for you.
Besides, God is always there for you, and if he finds/he's found God, then he will find you because God will lead him to you. Even
if the stab hurts so much that you can't talk to no one... Fine!
Maybe, you don't need to do so yet. Just hear Jesus give you the assurance that
He is there for you. Then you can sing in Kari's voice:
I know that you are for me I know that you will never forsake me in my weakness.
The both of us (God and I), care so much that you become THE BEST YOU; that the strength of God bursts forth on the inside of you to successfully beat through all challenges to become THE BEST, the VERY BEST. GOD'S grace is at work in you, sweetheart. Be the best you are!
~Mimi...
Fulfillment and acceptance aren't found in the air - their residence is within (on the inside of you). You can't be happy with anyone else till you are happy, fulfilled and calmly resolved, all by yourself. For crying out loud,we already have tons of dishevelled mums on the inside springing up on the outside, their stories being told as gossip or headline news daily. Please, don't add to the ever increasing number.
Whatever it is, FIX IT UP, NOW. No one is and will be YOUR BETTER HALF to complement and fill up spaces. Only God can fill the vacuums in your life created by a terrible childhood, bad relationships, past hurts and a desire to be loved. Your present state of a heart in shambles wasn't so ab initio. God made you WHOLESOME, not a burden, so don't plan to burden any one with your problems. Get it right, now!
Yea,I know they hurt you in many places intentionally or unintentionally. But, you're not the only one - so many of us are victims of different kinds of abuse from a very early age. For some, it initiated a RIPPLE EFFECT that left you so open, disgusting, and dirty (says who?). Some others are even scared that everyone else (besides them), are wolves in sheep clothing..., and that no one will accept them for real.
I know that you are for me I know that you will never forsake me in my weakness.
The both of us (God and I), care so much that you become THE BEST YOU; that the strength of God bursts forth on the inside of you to successfully beat through all challenges to become THE BEST, the VERY BEST. GOD'S grace is at work in you, sweetheart. Be the best you are!
~Mimi...
Mimi Okwara
is a Worship leader and Word teacher. She has a life revolving around
the music ministry, creative writing, public speaking,blogging and
poetry. She runs a counseling consult called "The RIGHT Initiative" and
directs The Unveilers Worship Group -(TUWG). Presently, she studies at
the University of Nigeria, Nsukka and resides there too.
She can be reached. via these contacts details:
Email : vachelmirex@gmail.com.
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Twitter: www.twitter.com/@mimiPneuma
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