MAN TO WOMAN
Today, on our column MAN TO WOMAN, which is all about getting a man's perspective on different issues that have to do with women, Paul Aliyu talks about becoming the dream woman. Read and share with someone around you.
Becoming the Woman of his Dreams
By Paul Aliyu.
Growing up, my dad use to say to us that, "a wise farmer will always go to the farm with his farm tools. Only a foolish farmer goes to the farm empty handed.” This simply means that you cannot be planning for a great harvest and ignore the period of tilling, cultivating and preparing the ground for the harvest you so desire.
Becoming is a process. It does not just happen; it is prepared and planned for. You cannot be dreaming of greatness and not prepare for it. If you fail to prepare for it, you will not notice or know it when it comes. So you cannot be dreaming of marriage and not prepare for marriage. Over time I have come to learn that there is nothing as good as preparing ahead of time for your spouse. Marriage becomes easy when spouses prepare themselves thoroughly before going into it.You cannot be dreaming of becoming the woman of his dreams without preparing to fit into his dream woman. Meet your dream man before you even meet him by preparing to meet him ahead of time.
Becoming the woman of his dreams is not all about being that "Woman" that he dreams of but it's about being the Woman that fits into his dreams, vision, purpose and God given assignment. If you only aspire to be the woman he dreams of, what about the day he stops dreaming or his dreams change and you all of a sudden become a nightmare to him? One thing that can never change is the God given assignment for that man. It therefore means that a man will value a woman that fits into his God given assignment more than a woman he just dreams of.
“I think we dream so we don’t have to be apart for so long. If we’re in each other’s dreams, we can be together all the time.” – A.A Milne
Be the woman of his dreams (the woman that fits into his God given assignment), and you become the woman he dreams of.
SIGNS THAT YOU ARE THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAM
1. You will meet in the place of fulfilling destiny
God thought of Eve at the point Adam was accomplishing and fulfilling purpose. The man whose dreams you are meant for will be busy accomplishing purpose. Destinies that have been programmed by God will always meet at one point to accomplish His will. Never ignore the place of fulfilling destiny; that was where God brought Eve to Adam.
2. You will fit into his dreams
When you are meant for him, one of the signs is that you will fit into his dreams. God made Eve for Adam to be a help-meet to him. God will never mismatch two people He has designed to accomplish one or same purpose. He will make you compatible for him. There might be differences in some areas but when it comes to dreams and accomplishing purpose, there will be oneness and unity of purpose.
3. God will be involve
You know you fit into his dreams when your meeting is orchestrated by God. The dream (or assignment) was given to him by God and if God has designed you for him, he will arrange your meeting just the way he brought Eve to Adam after he finished making Eve.
4. He will be attracted by your works(fruits) rather than your looks
Crave for a man that is more attracted to your works rather than your looks.
To be continued
P.S: Same time next week on MAN TO WOMAN, Paul Aliyu shares the 2nd part of this post that lets you know how to become the woman of his dreams. Keep a date with us.
Paul E. Aliyu is a young man who is passionate about God and the things of God. He is a missionary who has been in the mission field in Tanzania and is always willing to yield to the leading of the Holy Spirit. He is passionate about inspiring progress and bringing out the best in youths. What's more, he's single!
Got questions, observations or comments? Wanna be a guest blogger here? Email me on graceyokoye@yahoo.com
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