The choices, decisions and steps we take affect
us in more ways than we can imagine.
I’m pretty sure you know a lot of side effects of casual sex (whether protected or unprotected) but I guarantee you that what you’re about to read may not be what you think. Everything on thing on the earth has effects which could be positive or negative. The term “side effects” is usually used for things that have a positive effect alongside certain negative, uncomfortable or unpleasant effects. Aside from catching HIV/AIDS, STDs and the likes, unwanted pregnancies and so on, there are other side effects of casual sex which you may not be aware of and yours truly has taken it upon her to share them with you. Fasten your seatbelt as we take a trip through discovery land.
Side
Effect #1 – Soul Tie
What is a soul tie? A brand of ties? A tie
that the soul wears? Lol, capital NO. A soul tie is actually the bond created
between two souls, usually created via sex (definition mine). Sex creates a
bond that is different from other kinds of bond (e.g. the bond between friends,
family etc)-a spiritual bond between two souls; a soul
tie. This is great in marriage because it bonds spouses who are
committed to each other together. But in any other scenario, it becomes a
hazard because it keeps you bonded to past lovers you’ve long separated from
such that it is easier to fall into the temptation to sleep with an ex-lover,
even when the relationship has long ended. With each soul tie created, you lose
a part of you to that sex partner and gain a part of the person. The more soul
ties you create, the more you lose bits of yourself and gain bits of others
until you get to that point where you wonder how you acquired all these
habits/mannerisms that were not there at the beginning.
Side
Effect #2 – An Increased Libido
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Yea bebe, this is another side effect of
casual sex. No one is created a sex maniac from the beginning. We all start out
as virgins with a little sexual appetite until the steps we take or the things
we experience get us to the point where we become sex addicts. I’m talking about
that point where you just can’t do without sex and if there’s no one to “relieve
you”, you “help yourself” *wink*. With each sex partner you add to your life,
your libido keeps increasing till it gets out of control.
Side
Effect #3 – Lack of Self Control
This side effect is a product of side effect two.
Little drops of water they say make an ocean. With each casual sex experience (or
should I say experiment), one vital thing lost in the process is self-control and a whole lot of it for that
matter. And like I said before, you also
gain something: an increased libido.
Side
Effect #4 – Disregard for the Opposite Sex
Ahn, aside from all the heart break and stuff
people do which cause us to disregard the opposite sex, casual sex also has the
same effect. You lose respect for the opposite sex and begin to say things like
“they’re all the same” and the likes. You also develop an “everybody is doing
it” mindset toward sex and the opposite sex in general.
Side
Effect #5 – Inability to Trust
Obviously, this side effect is a product of
side effect four. As you begin to lose respect for the opposite sex, you also
lose the ability to trust because it is now engrained in your mind that “they’re
all the same and cannot be trusted”. So, you find it difficult to trust eventually
especially when you enter into a serious relationship.
Turn
the Lights Up!
Hehehehe! I do believe with these few points
of mine, I have been able to convince and not confuse you that… Don’t mind me
jor. I hope that a light bulb has been switched on in your head because of this
post. If you’re presently a victim of any or all of these side effects, don’t
feel bad; there’s hope for you. Just like there is a remedy for the itchiness
that is the side effect of the old malaria drug “chloroquine”, there is a
remedy for these side effects. With the help of God and his grace, you can overcome
all these and have these side effects reversed. He’s done it for many before;
he can do it again for you if you’ll only reach out for his help. Xoxo
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